If only…
Last week we looked at our “what ifs”. This week let’s talk about our “if onlys”. Our “what ifs” lead us to worry and our “if onlys” lead us to discontentment. If only I had that house. If only I had a better job. If only I lived there. If only I could get ahead. If only I had a little more money. If only I was married. If only I had children. If only I looked like that person. We need only to spend five minutes in a shopping centre before we find ourselves succumbing to “if only” thoughts.
One of my favorite books is Calm My Anxious Heart by Linda Dillow in which she talks about how to be content with our circumstances, our relationships, our roles and ourselves. Take some time to ponder these quotes from her book:
• We “catch” the If Only disease when we dwell on what we don’t have instead of on what we do have.
• If we are to find contentment in the midst of trial and uncertainty, we must accept our situation as being purposely allowed into our lives by a personal and loving God.
• Contentment is essentially a matter of accepting from God’s hand what He sends because we know that He is good and therefore it is good.
• Contentment is accepting God’s sovereign control over all of life’s circumstances.
• Contentment is a state of the heart, not a state of affairs.
• God wants you and me to learn to be content in our circumstances, not when they improve.
• Ultimately, contentment is more a shift in attitude than a change in circumstances.
• We have mixed up what we serve and what we use. Sadly, many serve things and use God; the Scriptures instruct us to do just the opposite.
• Happiness is getting what we want; contentment is wanting what we get.
Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5
Treasures to Share
I have no idea how many of you reading this might have young children, but here are some great educational sites for children.
Peep in the Big Wide World
Starfall
And if you’re looking for a good laugh, check out these cake disasters.
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